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Add for German home improvement company shows dad doing something special for his goth daughter.


*cries all over rug*

I really like our advertising these days… :3

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Fans are taking ‘Where’s Gamora?’ into their own hands

As many frustrated fans have pointed out online, much of the official Guardians of the Galaxy merchandise leaves out Gamora, one of the movie’s five titular Guardians, played by Zoe Saldana. Though Gamora has an equal amount of screen time as her male colleagues, and Saldana is second-billed after Chris Pratt, Gamora is mysteriously absent in some egregious ways.

Unfortunately, this is nothing new

This missing-Gamora bullshit makes me SO. MAD. “It’s a boy’s shirt so it can’t have a girl on it” ah yes, boys cannot wear something with a ladybody on it, that would turn them gay or something.

Hey, I wonder what the girls’ shirt for Guardians of the Galaxy looks like? OH WAIT HAHA THERE ISN’T ONE. In fact, a number of their licenses — Lego, Captain America, Star Wars, Ninjago, Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles, Transformers, X-Men — only appear on boys’ clothing.

I do not envy the challenge for parents who want their kids to have gender-neutral clothing.

now that you mention it, I bought my son Avengers underwear and I think it’s got every single hero on it except Black Widow. Shit.

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  • Question: I've tried dating outside my own culture and it's almost always full of these weird pitfalls that make things harder and less enjoyable for both of us. I need a certain baseline of shared unquestioned assumptions about reality if we're going to raise children together. - Anonymous
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    Hey you racist creep, I promise you, it’s not that bridging cultures is impossible, it’s that someone who says shit like “certain baseline of shared unquestioned assumptions” is a fucking huge asshole who needs to control their partners.

    yeah I married someone from “outside my culture” who wasn’t white and guess what: if you and your partner care about each other you can talk about how to raise the kids. But I didn’t enter the relationship concerned with “unquestioned assumptions” because who even does that

    ADULT LIFE PROTIP: question all assumptions

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THE ROCK has a teenage (preteen?) daughter, so I bet his opinion has been reached after hours of non-consensual research

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"My best day had to be the day after I wrapped Guardians of the Galaxy. I was very homesick and coming home to my wife, and my home, and to my son, who was at the time 13 months old. My wife told me there’s a chance he won’t recognize you—but that’s okay that happens all the time. He doesn’t know, he might be a little shy…"


one reason I don’t want to shave my mustache is my daughter has never seen my bare upper lip and I fear she won’t recognize me

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"Everyone knows that being the parent of an infant is hard. There’s the sleeplessness, the screaming fits to tend to, the loss of autonomy, the social isolation and the sheer monotony of it.

Everyone also knows that there is only one socially acceptable response to this predicament: a dogged insistence that the adoration you feel for your child makes all the sacrifices worthwhile. It’s “the toughest job you’ll ever love.” The only valid excuse for feeling sad or despondent is a postpartum hormonal crash. What other justification could there be for greeting your bundle of joy with despair?

This is the ideology of modern parenting, and it can lead to unnecessary feelings of guilt and shame, for it ignores an inconvenient truth: that many women and men experience significant psychological distress in response to becoming a parent and that much of this distress isn’t caused by a hormonal epiphenomenon of the birth process. It is driven instead in large measure by the objectively bleak circumstances new parents often face. That you love your child is not always sufficient to counteract this reality."

- The Trauma of Parenthood - (via brutereason)

well Jesus this is my life since 2009

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We go forward.

whoa who poured all this salt water in my eyes, better let it out

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He turned five today and I have no idea what comes next. (Warning: personal, unfiltered rant follows. Gets gross. This is your final warning)

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"You seem to have become far more Ernest in your feminist beliefs recently. Was that spurned by the birth of your daughter? If so, why?"


-from my page

If you look back over the course of my writing, I think you’ll see this was in the works long before I had a daughter. Step One was probably moving to Japan, a country where sexism is alive and well. I never gave women’s rights too much thought in the US (because I mistakenly assumed the issue had been settled) but now that I’m living in a society that struggles to respect women on even a cursory level, it has opened my eyes to the general abuse women face around the world.

Step Two was the gradual inclusion of feminist issues in the world of video games, which means I owe Anita Sarkeesian a drink. Her "Tropes vs Women in Video Games" series has been fascinating to watch and at the same time, the revolting backlash of hate it has sparked has been a sobering look at so-called “gamers.” When you see a tide of ugliness on that scale, you have to make a stand. Staying quiet is tantamount with condoning their behavior.

Step Three was probably my daughter, because she is adorable and, just like with my son, I want her to enjoy the things I enjoy and I want her to have the same opportunities to find happiness as he does. Why shouldn’t she have that chance? Because she’s not a boy? That’s ridiculous and insulting yet it’s a real train of thought that exists in the world.

Step Four was “all of 2013” because, between the "zombie bait" monstrosity, Anita’s videos finally coming out, and a steady stream of high-profile ultra-sexist controversies, I was fed up. What people kept dismissing as isolated incidents, as anomalous conduct of a few bad apples, as “mistakes” or “poor choices” or “just jokes,” I recognized as systemic and wrong. And just like with the backlash I saw in 2012, I decided I had to make a stand. Either I chose to ally myself with feminists, or I was silently endorsing everything misogynists said about women.

Oh yeah, and Step Five was the internet attacking my friend Dina for getting a job in a video game company because she’s a woman and a feminist. It’s all too easy to roll your eyes and laugh at conspiracy theorists and irrationally angry nerds when they’re talking about Half-Life 3 or DLC being already on the disc. It’s quite another thing to see them gang up to slander, threaten, and silence someone you care about.

The more I think about it, I don’t think I turned to feminism as much as feminism came to me. Feminism has been a voice of reason in an increasingly loud, angry chorus of men in this world who won’t shut up and listen to anyone else’s opinions. Men who insist women can’t do certain things because of “nature” or “history” or “realism” or…fuck it, if I start listing their bullshit excuses for being sexist, this post will never end.

So yeah, I hope that answers your question, and I in turn ask you this: why aren’t you more earnest in your feminist beliefs? Because is it us against them right now, and they control the goddamn world. We need to step up or they win by default.

Who’s with me?